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Expectations again

This topic i guess has become the underlying reason for most issues i can immediately think of as of now, big small whatever be the category  Be it office or with my people , family or friends When one behaves in a certain way we expect other person to reciprocate/ understand by default reason of such behavior, and there is a certain behavior expectation Assume 2 characters A and B and some scenarios :  Both are good friends, A would share things with B, on which B is generally a good listener and expects that A should spend most time with B, and talk less otherwise especially identify only the few non idiotic(if i may call them) and only interact with them since B is that way (well not always though) Now B is not as expressive, something which A had been sharing or shares becomes too trivial an information to share with A. In the same breath if A does not share such information it could possibly result in some resent or argument Well if you read through you may wonder how sim...

More random thoughts

How easy or how difficult is it to focus ? Can there be a simple answer or rather a same answer for all or rather a similar set of people with the same kind of environment or rather in the same environment? Probably not, i cant quote any clinical research done but upfront this could depend on so so many factors To start with, how has the individual has been brought up(leave aside natural characteristic of brain and character or nature or a person like over thinking, getting bothered or giving heed to trivial matters etc) Then comes current state of that individual, every age has its own kind of issues, a child may not be able to focus if he is keen to watch his favourite cartoon when he has been asked to study Teenagers may develop interest and could focus more in those topics/ things than what could be expected(most likely studies) Grown ups have their own reasons why it gets difficult to focus, could be household issues/ health/ family related / office issues or politics / relationsh...